The passing of a mother's heart

From the birth we toil because of love, with the care of our young. Also, because we anticipate the great things this little being will grow to do. There is so much promise of a long life seen in his little eyes, and a Mother's gaze with prayers to heaven of thanks and intercession for everlasting ever.

This world we live in brings no pleasures without some pain and it gives to no one freely anything good. It offers gracefully, a blanket of confusion and deceitful pleasures. Only by the love of God are we capable of navigating safely through this dark cold world.

But, when the world has successfully captured the gaze of those promising little eyes and fixaited them on deceitfully great things. The walk to temporary pleasures begins the closure of those eyes ever seeing the truth of this place.

Once this world has succeeded in closing those eyes forever, lets not toil with why, how, and when. Just remember the Mother's love, the Mother's gaze into those eyes and look up to the promises of heaven. The promise of a freed spirit resting in a place of no deceit or pain.

Lay, and rest my child for the Father is on his way to wake you forever!

In loving memory, Derek (Pickle) McKinnon.

Nap time is such a savior!

On days when it seems everything is a wirl wind, and time is escaping away, there is nothing a mother is more greatful for then naptime.

God moves where I can't go. He see's what I'm not able to and He speaks when I don't know the words to say. I breath because He made a promise to me, and on his promise my life depends. I in faith must believe God will fulfill all his promises o me. I have not seen Him let one go yet. He is the captain of my sea as I seek His favor in all do. Without His promises I have nothing. I walk by faith, and faith alone. When you go the the Father, please mention my name so that i will not be forgotten.

Stay active with your children

It is very important that we stay active in our children's personal life as they age. There is so much our children face in today's social climate and the world tries to pull them every which way.

It is easy when they are young and see us (parents) as their best friend and most important person in the world. As they get older, it is more challenging as they become independent and self-reliant.

We must communicate our love for them more, and in a variety of actions as well as in words. You never know when that's the bit of motivation they need to continue to be strong, overcome challenges or most importantly hold on to life becuase they are important too!

Foresight for parenting

God trusts us to raise our children in a way that is pleasing to Him so that they may be fruitful as they mature with age. As a part of this we must have rules that governs them and behavioral habits that guides them. Children, in their lack of foresight and in their youthful desires continually challenge our rules and question our governance over their activities. At times they will be very rebellious and will act and say things that hurts our feelings. Even in this vulnerable state, we must be steadfast and continue to parent our children as described in the Bible. We have foresight our children do not and we are to understand God holds us responsible to do what we are supposed to do and that is raise our children to be responsible, productive and respectable people who love the Lord.

Philippians 3:14

The power of "I'm Sorry"

The phrase I'm sorry is one of the most impacting phrases in child development. It's true power reveals itself when a parent says it to a child. It tells a child 'you're important to me, so much so, that I will humble myself to you and admit my mistakes.'

A child learns they deserve respect. It also teaches them that everyone makes mistakes, but when we do, we need to own up to our mistakes in order to reconcile them, not matter how big or small we think them to be.

God has to be the head and the tail

I have discovered the importance of putting God at the head and the tail of my household.

The void that existed no longer exist. The loneliness is gone. I now have someone to discuss important decisions with and who's sound wisdom I can let guide me. Most importantly, when I'm worn down and tired, I have someone I can more then just lean on; I can cast all my cares on Him and leave all things in His hands to take care of while I rest because, He is able.